I’ve been picked on three times today. It’s been the same three girls, the one at school and the one my friends are with. Their boyfriends are always picking on them, and once I tried to take their stuff when they were going through a breakup, but I don’t know what they got out of it. It was a little weird because I don’t think I got what they had.
The girls who picked on you don’t deserve you.
Ive been a victim of this to some extent this week. First it was the girl at school and now the one at college. Both were picked on by the same guy and they were both upset about it. I just don’t get why. I mean, it’s one thing to not take your problems seriously when people are making fun of you or your appearance, but when someone is picking on you, you really shouldn’t be upset.
The things people say and do when you’re not around don’t usually make the world go away. It just makes the world around you that much more annoying, and if you let it. I think this is where self-awareness goes wrong. In my experience, most of the time you’re around people who are going to pick on you anyway.
There are many ways to be picked on. A simple example is a coworker who talks about you behind your back. Another situation is when you get a “jealous” look from a coworker. You could be a bit sensitive, but you may not realize it. For example, if you are having a conversation in which you are the topic, you might notice that the coworker is looking at you funny, and that his eyes are really bugging you.
Another example is when you get a look of disgust or pity from a coworker. You know that they think youre a jerk for picking on them. But your brain has just realized that youre not a jerk, but you dont know why they are giving you such a hard time. You may have a bit of pride, but you dont realize it.
You dont really notice these things. It’s just you’re noticing them, and you want to avoid them. But you might consider what that looks like in your mind and in your life.
You may not realize that a coworker who picks on you isn’t necessarily right. If you are a good guy, you can take a look at how they are treating you and see how you are doing. The fact that they are picking on you is an example of how they are looking at you. If you are a jerk, you can take a look at how they are treating you and see how you are doing, and see if they are doing anything to make you feel bad or embarrassed.
At this point, when you are doing this, you are doing the work of a complete jerk, and you are starting to realize that you are doing the work of a complete jerk, because you are trying to prove them wrong. This is what I do when I am being a jerk.
A jerk who is trying to prove them wrong is an example of a “self-aware” person. It’s a person who has the ability to see that it’s not just their behavior that they are being judged against, but their personality.