I love the fact that there are three different levels for self-awareness (see image above). If you’ve ever tried to do this, you know what I mean. I’m sure you’ve heard of the idea of “beyond awareness” or similar terms that I’ll be exploring in the coming weeks as well.
At least in Kayla’s case, people who have had traumatic experiences early in life often experience these types of self-awareness issues. If youve ever had a traumatic experience, I bet youve gone through a time when you were more aware of your actions than you were of your surroundings. Like the time you were walking through the mall and came across a group of people who were in a race for a toy gun. Or the time you were riding in your car and you hit the brakes.
The time you got run over by a bus. Or the time you got punched in the mouth by a drunk driver. Or the time you were mugged. Or the time you were raped. Or the time you were abducted. These are all traumatic events in their own right.
You need to know what you’re capable of in order to react to them. The worst thing you can do is to pretend that you’re not. If you’re walking down the street and a guy stomps on your face, then you’re not going to stop and apologize. If someone hits you, you need to be able to take a step back and take in the situation.
It’s not just the things that you can’t control, it’s the things that you can control that are the most difficult to deal with. In this case, the things that you can control are your reactions to the situation. Because a man is mugging a woman, you need to know how to stop him.
In the case of the mugging, the only thing you cant control is your reaction. If youre too quick to run away, you may risk being mugged again. If youre too slow to react, you may be mugged again. If youre too slow to act, you might get mugged again. If youre too fast to react, you might be mugged again.
The other thing you can control is your reaction. You can run away, you can turn around, you can scream. You can do all those things, but you cant control your reactions.
There’s really no point in trying. You can try to control the mugging but it wont work. A little less fast and you have a chance, a little more slow and you can just run away and hope that the mugger doesn’t follow you.
It’s quite clear that kayla and her team are the ones to pay for the mugging. We’ve been watching the footage of the mugger’s run, and it looks like the mugger is going to grab her and take her away. While she’s screaming for help, we could see the mugger, who looked like a goth kid, making his way to the back of her head where he pulled her hair and left.
One of the advantages of our new trailer is that it has been made in a way that the muggers can’t see what we’re up to. It’s also clear that we’ll be fighting back by using karaoke, and there are several of us who can sing.
