It’s a good idea to always include alternate pickup person to your list of targets. Why? Because not everyone has the same schedule as you. It’s not that we have to be on your “date” or be a “partner”, it’s just that we have different schedules and priorities. Knowing that alternate pickup person will offer you an additional “bait-and-switch” option is a great idea.
This goes back to the point about being aware of what you do and where you lead yourself. We all have a target list of people we’d like to have sex with (or at least be in the same room as) so we can avoid that embarrassing scenario. But if we’ve been with a certain person for a while, we might not be as careful about our dates and the things we do with that person.
You can also use scheduling to help avoid the awkwardness of accidentally hooking up with a person you dont want to be with. If a new friend comes to your house, you can schedule something to happen with them on a later date. If you don’t like a certain person you met and they want to go out with you, you can add them to a list of people you want to avoid.
This might be an idea someone should try.
I’m not saying this is a good idea. But there are some situations in life where you might want to avoid making things happen. Maybe you want to be in a relationship with someone who you dont want to spend the rest of your life with. Maybe you want to be with someone who you can be yourself with and not mess up. Maybe you want to be with someone who you can tell your friends is a really nice person. The list could go on.
This is one of those situations. The person you want to avoid is a guy you like. To make this person your target, you first have to determine if he’s the kind of guy you want to be with. You could do this by first looking up his interests, activities, and past experiences. Then you can come up with some more specific ways that he’s likely to mess things up.
For instance, a guy that you just met is actually a pretty decent guy. You’re just not sure about him. So what things would you be able to do to him to make yourself less likely to be a target. You could change his appearance, you could talk about his past, you could talk about what he likes to do, you could talk about how he makes you feel, you could talk about how he makes you feel about him.
So you could even talk about how he makes you feel about you. I could just imagine how he makes you feel about him. He looks a little nerdy and has a really nice smile. I could think about how he makes me feel. I would probably say something like “I really like the way that he makes me feel.
And that’s the problem. We’re all so used to people who have a nice smile and seem like normal people. We have no idea what it’s like to have someone who makes you feel like you’re in an intense situation. I mean, there’s even someone who says he’s a “good guy” and he doesn’t even ask about us. And I mean, he doesn’t even smile and look us in the eye. He just laughs his ass off.
The good news is that you can now add alternate pickup person target in your profile! And that means you can have a good personality as well.
