There’s a saying that goes something like this: Don’t be eye candy. Be soul food. And, don’t be the kind of person who turns people on by staring at them. Be the kind of person who is comfortable with their own thoughts and feelings.
We’ve all been there. We’re staring at people and thinking to ourselves, “I like this person. I like her dress. There is something about this person that makes me feel like I want to be around her.” And then all of a sudden it’s out of nowhere, a person stares at us and we feel like we want to be around that person.
There are so many reasons why you shouldn’t stare at someone and feel like you want to be around them.
I would have to say that eye candy is actually one of the most unhealthy things humans can be. We all have a very natural tendency to look at each other and look at pretty things. But as you become more self-aware, you start to see that its unhealthy to look at pretty things, to stare at them.
While we may choose to look at things that we find more attractive than others, it is a very dangerous thing to do. Because we are so used to seeing beautiful bodies, and therefore, beautiful faces, we can easily lose our sense of ourselves. When you have lost your sense of yourself, you are not only losing your sense of who you are, but you lose the ability to make good decisions, or to communicate effectively.
It’s like when you are having a bad day, and you want to tell yourself something is wrong, and the only way you can think of to do that is to look at your own face. You start to think that you are a person who is just like everyone else around you, or, at least, that you’re not any different from them. The result is that you lose your ability to be a good person.
The problem is that we need to be more than just good people. That being said, we also need to be able to be good at being good. Unfortunately, this often comes at the expense of being attractive.
This is the unfortunate trade-off that too many people make. Good at being good is a skill, but being attractive is a personality trait. We need to be able to both be good at good, but at the same time have a personality that makes us attractive. That means we need to be able to express our emotions in either a positive or negative way, and we need to feel confident enough to do that.
This is the key. Be confident enough to do that. Because what this means is that if you want to attract someone else, you need to be really confident and open about yourself, and it’s going to take a little time (and a lot of work) to get them to want to hang out with you.
It’s like the opposite of being an attractive man. You need to be open and honest about some of your more embarrassing aspects too, but it’s your business. And once you’ve found a way to express those things, it’s going to be a long road.